Hi Everyone!
It is so easy for us as women to silence our voice, our needs, our opinions, especially when we are in larger group settings.
Do you ever find yourself hiding or being invisible or playing it small so that you won’t be a threat to others?Or believing that you don’t have much to contribute,feel insecure and start shrinking around others that take up more space? If you see yourself doing this, do you realize you’re doing it? Have you ever asked yourself why you are doing that?
Do you find yourself holding yourself back because of caring too much about what other people think of you? Or do you find yourself second-guessing your actions and opinions? Or do you not tell the truth because you don’t want to “hurt” someone?
Do you find yourself feeling guilty when you set a boundary or say no if it’s disappointing someone? Do you believe you can’t disappoint others and/or are filled with guilt when you do? Do you jump through hoops to accommodate others and then feel resentful, depleted and disillusioned by life when nobody recognizes or appreciates you? Do you abandon your needs, yourself for others in a way that’s diminishing of yourself?Are you afraid to rock the boat because you want things to be peaceful?
This is only a partial list of the ways women give away their power.
Some of the patterns are so hard wired in us, that we don’t even know we are doing it. They are multi generational patterns that we were born into.
And that is just a partial list of the collective feminine wounding patterns that we all need to shed quickly to birth our true self and make our bold contribution to the world around us.
The truth is, we are all wired for greatness and we all have a unique genius waiting to be unleashed within us!
We can no longer let this brainwashing hold us back from rising up. I would love to hear how any of you have broken out of these patterns and how that has felt for you. In addition, please feel free to list any other patterns you find yourself or see other women in.
This is only a partial list and it’s such a great help as we are awakening in consciousness to see all of the traps that we need to find a way out of in order to birth our true self.
We can be a challenge to break out of these patterns. But I promise you it is the best thing you’ll ever do. You have the power to rise up and become a butterfly! Let’s do it!😊